The Confidence Myth (And How to Beat It) w/ Shadé Zahrai | Ep 47
In this high-energy episode of the LFG Energy Podcast, I sit down with Shadé Zahrai—bestselling author, Harvard-trained leadership coach, and founder of Influenceo Global—for a masterclass on unlocking confidence, overcoming imposter syndrome, and leaning into discomfort to transform your potential.
A former commercial lawyer turned banking strategist and Fortune 500 consultant, Shadé is now one of the most trusted voices in leadership and peak performance. With over 3 million followers and a PhD in organizational behavior, she’s known for translating cutting-edge neuroscience and psychology into practical strategies that drive lasting mindset shifts.
Together, we unpack the myth of confidence, the trap of comparison, and why consistent micro wins—not massive breakthroughs—are the true foundation of sustainable growth. Whether you're leading a team, rebuilding your self-belief, or chasing your next big goal, this episode will challenge the way you think about identity, discipline, and high performance.
Timestamps:
(00:24) – From Law to Purpose: Shadé’s Pivot into Performance
(06:30) – Escaping the Success Trap & the Illusion of Readiness
(13:50) – Identity-Based Goals & the Power of Micro Wins
(22:00) – Why Comparison Destroys Confidence
(31:00) – The Dark Side of Social Media Growth
(40:00) – What It Really Means to Trust Yourself
(47:00) – Shadé’s Current Mission: From Consumption to Contribution
Connect with Shadé Zahrai:
Website: https://www.shadezahrai.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/shadezahrai
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shadezahrai/?hl=en
Welcome to the LFG Energy podcast! Your host, Arjun Dhingra, is a two-time Taekwondo world champion and the former Team USA co-head coach. He is a 23-year mortgage veteran of the industry who loves influencing change in people.
This podcast is about the stories and lessons of those who have had their backs against the wall and have ultimately overcome. Former Olympians, coaches, entrepreneurs, and incredible human beings will share their experiences of resilience and beating the odds in spite of adversity so that you too can learn to start doing the same in your life.
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